Passion, Pain & Purpose …New Beginnings

Have you ever heard that saying; “good things come to those that wait?” Well, I do believe that saying is true to a point… has indeed taken over 25+ years to get here today; so I’ve definitely waited, however, in the “waiting” it’s important to be “doing”, what exactly do I mean by that? Continue reading….


While living in Mississauga, Ontario at 22 years of age & on my own, I realized there had to be more to life. I felt unfulfilled & wanted a challenge. I was working as a personal trainer & aerobics instructor at the YMCA at the time. A year prior to that I began my own healthy lifestyle by going vegetarian, giving up smoking, eating all the carbs after midnight, and drinking (quite a lot) & of course this lifestyle included an exercise program.

Picture above: 24 years old…3 years of adapting a healthy lifestyle.

Passion & Purpose

When I had decided to work at the YMCA & quite my waitressing job at a five & dime truck stop, I knew that wherever I would plant my roots it would always be in the health and fitness industry. I was going to change peoples lives one person at a time, I had a vision of getting people healthy & teaching them how to enjoy their lives and beat the odds (or at least try)of disease & a mediocre life.

Purpose on Hold….

Shortly after working for the YMCA & finding my “passion & purpose” I got bad news about my father, he had had his very first stroke at 51 years of age. My heart broke, that strong willed, independent & hard working man became vulnerable and lost his greatest passion in life after 35 years; becoming an owner/operator of his own trucking business for a large company, Phillip Environmental.

His dream came to an abrupt end & my passion for something in life was just beginning.

More bad news

Shortly after the sad news about my father, I was in shock & sadness to find out my mom had been diagnosed with schizophrenia.

Life was changing quickly & I realized more how important it was for me to keep my focus & to take care of my own health. Staying healthy & focused gave me the ability to help my loved ones who needed me for the first time.

I decided a year later to leave Mississauga & go live with my mother & help her through the next stage of her life and recovery from so much trauma.

Some 10 years later in October of 2003 I lost my dad. After several strokes, a prosthesis, and an infection he sadly lost his battle with heart disease. One of the hardest times in my life; I was a daddy’s girl & he was the only rock I had when I needed one. (Miss you dad).

Labour First THAN Delivery

Years later, after marriage, children & a new found faith in Jesus Christ plus lots of mountain top & valley experiences & learning to become my BEST through it all; I am ready to help others & coach them to become the BEST version of themselves, MIND BODY & SPIRIT

Don’t get me wrong, my marriage & my children are my greatest purpose & passion, however, I believe there is an individual purpose & passion inside all of us apart from our loved ones.

What I have learned the most is that anything worth value in our lives comes with sacrifice & a lot of hard work. The mountains & valleys in life are the very things needed for us to grow & develop, I often think of life’s greatest blessings unto that of the birth of my children, I needn’t explain it to the mothers reading this as you would agree that that final PUSH, that final drop of sweat & PAIN is the greatest pathway to our greatest blessing, our children.

And so it is with our PURPOSE and PASSIONS in life.

New Beginnings….On my Own

Thus, the birth of BE UR BEST ON THE GO, a Health & Fitness business delivering all your needs to become the BEST version of you!

Registered & now a sole proprietor, I have the responsibility to change lives & help others adapt to a healthy lifestyle & learn to love themselves enough to prioritize their health; One day at a time!

BE UR BEST at any age! You are WORTH it!

Sunday Dinner – Creamy Mushroom Fettuccine

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This past Sunday was such a beautiful day. The sun was shining brightly, the air was crisp and I could smell from a distance the aroma of Apple Crisp, well, not really but it was a great day for it. So I ended up making just that, but I will upload that recipe later.

One thing about eating plant based meals is the amazing options for much of my favourite food before. For example, Creamy Mushroom Fettuccine is one of my personal favourites, I just omit the chicken now but feel free to add it to this recipe.

As a working mom with three teenage boys, I also need quick and nutritious meals to prepare so one other blessing about plant based which I didn’t even think of when making his transition was the time you save not cooking meats.

This recipe is a common one with many recipes in the web, this one however is plant based but feel free to personalize it your own way, that’s the best part about cooking, make it personal!

A couple of things first before I get to the recipe. Have you ever heard of “nutritional yeast”? I never did till I started cooking plant based. It is quiet the neat little additive to many ingredients for plant based or vegan/vegetarian meals.

I find this ingredient has a cheesy flavour to it and I love adding it to this recipe especially as you probably guessed or already know that plant based nutrition has no dairy. This is also a great supplement for B vitamins as it is loaded with them and B12 being a vitamin I don’t get from meat anymore, it’s perfect!

Click here to find out more about nutritional yeast and it’s any benefits and uses.

On with the recipe….


Creamy Mushroom Fettuccine

Serves 4


  • 1 bag Rice Fettuccine, Rice Asian Noodles OR White Organic Fettucinne
  • 2 pkg mixed mushrooms(I prefer cremini and white button)
  • fresh thyme, rosemary, parsley

Sauce Ingredients

  • 1 medium onion
  • 2 tablespoons chopped JARRED garlic OR 4-5 fresh cloves garlic
  • 1/2 cup vegetable broth (low sodium)
  • 1 cup cashew milk
  • 1 tablespoon vegan butter (earth balance)
  • sea salt and ground pepper -add to your own taste
  • 1 1/2 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
  • 1/4 cup nutritional yeast


Add pasta to boiling water as directed. Cook while preparing sauce. Once cooked set aside.

How to make the sauce:

  1. In a large saucepan add vegan butter and melt over medium heat
  2. Add garlic & onion and mushrooms then sauté till onions and garlic are transparent-stirring frequently
  3. Add vegetable broth, sea salt, ground pepper, thyme and rosemary and continue to simmer for another 4-5 minutes
  4. Add cashew milk and bring to soft boil
  5. Then stir in nutritional yeast while sauce is boiling until it starts to thicken and then down heat on low.
  6. This part is where it’s hard for me to write out recipes because I will taste test several times to get the right flavour, you may want more salt , garlic, and pepper or you may want the sauce thicker. So experiment until it is perfect for your taste.

In the meantime, place pasta in a large bowl and add the sauce. Add a few sprigs of thyme and parsley on top and serve with a side, I prefer organic sourdough bread.

and there you have it! This is delicious on any type of day, any time of year.


Weight Training…You REALLY could benefit from it

blackandwhite_RetouchedWhy I started exercising, particularly, lifting weights
In October of 2003 my life changed forever.

I lost my friend, my mentor, my anchor, my daddy.

In his 61st year, he fought his final battle with disease.

In the end it was an infection and the blood thinners(for his stroke) posed a problem for a surgery to help alleviate the infection. Kidney dialyses was the only option and my dad decided not to do it. He died three days later quietly in a private hospital room.

The toughest part of it all was I did not get there in time to be by his side. I was angry, hurt, sad, and broken hearted beyond belief. I realized just how much I loved my dad after he left me that day. Watching that hurst drive away with him was the first worst day of my life.

A Beautiful lesson

Indirectly my dad opened my eyes to the risks and potential diseases that can happen from not taking care of our temples(bodies).

I made up my mind in my early 20’s after his first stroke of many to start making the changes necessary to perhaps minimize my chances of hijacking the same damaging genetic pool.

I believe today my dad would be proud to see the changes I’ve made over the years to maintain and better my health. Often, it’s too late when we realize the importance of making healthy choices.

In all fairness there wasn’t as much information at my dad’s finger tips when he was growing up and when you grew up in a post-war generation, you ate what you were given and food choices were more nutritional then.

The risks showed up much later in his life when he started making poor food choices. He also had a sedentary job as a truck driver. I want to be clear that I’m not speaking negative of my father, he worked VERY hard to provide for us as a father and I will always love him for that, unfortunately his body took the brunt of it.

Disease & Weight training

Weights, they are my favourite exercise. I got hooked at 22 and never looked back. They are till this day a regular part of my workout routine. I do not particularly like cardio but it is just as important.

Benefits of Weight-lifting ;

  • Not only does strength training increase your physical work capacity, it also improves your ability to perform activities of daily living.  You will be able to work harder and longer with the proper weight training activities.
  • It improves bone density.  One of the best ways you can control bone loss as you age is to add strength training into your workout plan.
  • It promotes fat-free body mass with decreasing sarcopenia.  The lean muscle mass that we all work so hard for decreases with age.  If we don’t add strength training to our routine then it will turn into fat.
  • It Increases the strength of connective tissue, muscles, and tendons. This leads to improved motor performance and decreased injury risk.
  • It improves your quality of life as you gaining body confidence.  Strength training will not only make you strong, but will also help with managing your weight, hence avoiding or minimizing risks for diseases such as diabetes and heart disease.
  • Lifting weights lowers your stress levels.I can attest to this, it may not be proven however, with all those endorphins being released it only makes sense.
  • Muscle uses more energy than fat. The best way to explain this is also the simplest: You can use muscle as you move; you cannot “use” fat. When you walk or talk or lift, you engage your muscles, and in doing so, expend energy. Even when doing nothing at all, muscle is burning more calories than fat is. Granted, it’s a small amount, but it still counts.
  • Change the shape of your body: think curves and booty’s ladies! I like to feel and look good and I have no regrets for that. It’s an INSIDE AND OUT thing for me. Men, it’s shaping those lats and developing those strong shoulders you like to show off in those tank tops.

Where to start

So if I at least got you thinking about starting weights check out a few tips to get started. Jamie Eason is a well known Personal trainer, FigurePro and Fitness Model.

Now don’t get overwhelmed at her story or routine. Starting out with just 3lb dumbbells is a start.

I also recommend seeing your family doctor first before starting any new workout or nutrition program.

I am sharing this link  Jamie Eason Live Trainer not to promote this specific workout, but rather to give you some basic knowledge of weight training and what it can do for you. Make it your it your own.

Gym…Home…Backyard…or Garage

The possibilities are endless when it comes to where and how you work out. I prefer to workout at home. All I have is the basics; a few barbells, dumbbells and free weight plates.

If you don’t have any of these together started than just use full water bottles or soup cans, something you have a good grip on.

At home workout videos like this one Hammer & Chisel are a good option for those who don’t want to be around lots of other people or intimidating atmosphere in the gym. It can also be a financial concern.

Other people prefer to be in a gym with other people round them, especially if they are brand new to weight training. You will at least get a basic introduction, but if you want them to set you up on a program you will have to pay a lot of money for it.

It’s all up to you and what makes you comfortable.

Healthy for me and for my family

I know that working out and eating healthy is not a guarantee that sickness and disease will not come to your door BUT and I mean BUT, it’s a possibility that you might not, I would rather not take the chance and not do anything than to do all I can to lessen the risk. If I ever do get sick I can tell you that I know its NOT because I din’t take care of myself, that is empowering to me.

At my age, 46, my dad had type II diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure and was obese. I only condition I have is 1.25+ reading glasses.

I haven doubt that exercise and eating for the most part healthy over the last 22 years is a huge contribution to my well being.

Sure, I know what your thinking, there are people overweight, smoking and drinking who are in perfect health right? I will say this, it is not the norm and their energy levels are not the same and well, I’m not playing Russian roulette with my life. The statistics are in your favour when you eat healthy and exercise. It’s the majority of cases.

I want to see my grandchildren and great children one day. I have dreams and visions of roller blading with my grandchildren, seriously.

I want to live with vitality and teach those around me how to honour their bodies. It is truly a temple we’ve been given and it deserves respect.

Two of my teen sons are not quiet on the nutrition scale I would like them on, however, they are active and I believe one day the lessons I taught them will come back to them and that they will continue the my contribution to their children and so on and so on

In Loving Memory of my Father,  William Morgan Donald Arnold.  1943-2003